The Castle Westenhanger

From start to finish everyone we met at Westenhanger was friendly, reassuring and so helpful. We really felt special and like our day was all that mattered. No question was too big of an ask and any worries we had were squashed quickly. The communication through Sonas was great throughout the planning process. We really enjoyed the VIP days leading up to the big day as we got a great feel for the venue and the tasting bowls for food choices were really helpful (although literally everything tasted amazing, so it didn’t make our decision any easier!). Then meeting Josie 6 weeks beforehand to run through the day helped ensure everything was as organised as possible! As there was no event the day beforehand we were able to bring everything along with us and set up which was great instead of the morning before. We also got £300 off extras with our blue light card discount which was very handy. Huge shout out to Josie! She was so calm, cool and collected throughout the day. She managed issues like a melting cake like a pro and had a back up plan at the ready if needed. So many guests told me on the day and for many days after how wonderful the venue is. They all commented on the fact that it was absolutely stunning but also how amazing the service was. The way the servers brought out the food was very impressive!! There were no hiccups and if there was you wouldn’t notice because they got on top of it straight away. The food was a 10/10 for everybody - again lots of guests commented on this and said it was one of the best weddings they’d been to. Can’t get b

The team at Westenhanger were outstanding. They were so professional and helped make our wedding day, the best day of our lives. They were there every step of the way to make sure we were happy and comfortable. They were really flexible with any suggestions and last minute changes we wanted to make. They were excellent at getting things set up and moved for us. We can’t thank them enough - especially Rhianna who was so supportive of us. The catering team were also fantastic and the food was really excellent. As for the venue - it was stunning. We had the most perfect, fairytale wedding. There were so many perfect opportuni

We couldn't be happier that we chose Castle Westenhanger for our wedding. It truly is a fairytale venue that creates the most magical backdrop for photos and makes the whole day feel incredibly special. All of our guests absolutely loved the food, and the team were so accommodating when it came to special dietary requirements and individual preferences. The staff were amazing from start to finish and helped the day run so smoothly that we didn't have to worry about a thing. Their professionalism, kindness, and attention to detail really made the day unforgettable. We also loved the DJ - having the dancefloor full was really important to us so it was gret to have someone to read the room but also really listened to our preferences when it came to musi

We honestly couldn't have chosen a more perfect venue than Castle Westenhanger for our wedding. From the very beginning right through to the end of our special day, everything was absolutely incredible. A huge thank you has to go to Rhenna. Throughout the lead up to the wedding, she was always there to answer our endless questions, offer reassurance, and make sure every little detail was taken care of. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and on the wedding day itself she was an absolute superstar. She worked so hard behind the scenes to make sure everything ran seamlessly, allowing us to relax and enjoy every moment. We genuinely couldn't have done it without her. We also want to give a special mention to Joe, who was amazing during the evening. He was always on hand if we needed anything, answered every question with a smile, and made sure everything continued to run perfectly. His calm and friendly attitude really stood out. The venue itself is simply breathtaking. The grounds, the castle, and every part of the venue created the most beautiful backdrop for our wedding. Our guests couldn't stop commenting on how stunning it was. The food, the organisation, the atmosphere, and every member of staff exceeded our expectations. From start to finish, we felt completely looked after, and it truly made our wedding day everything we'd dreamed of and more. Thank you to everyone at Castle Westenhanger for giving us memories that will last a lifetime. We would recommend this venue to any couple looking for a beautiful, st

As the bride and groom, we honestly couldn’t have dreamed of a more perfect setting for our wedding than Westenhanger Castle. From the very first visit, we knew it was special but experiencing our actual day there completely exceeded every expectation. Walking into the castle on the morning of our wedding felt surreal. There’s something about the history and atmosphere of the place that makes everything feel timeless, like our day was part of something much bigger. The ceremony space was breathtaking, and seeing it filled with our closest family and friends made it even more emotional than we imagined. The staff were incredible throughout the entire day. They were calm, supportive, and always one step ahead without ever feeling intrusive. They made everything run so smoothly that we were able to truly be present and enjoy every moment, which is something we’ll always be grateful for. One of our favourite moments was stepping outside together after the ceremony and seeing the castle grounds in the light, it felt like a dream. Every part of the venue looked beautiful in our photos, but even more importantly, it felt warm, personal, and full of joy. We left Westenhanger Castle feeling like we had lived through something truly magical. It wasn’t just a venue for us, it became part of our story, and we will always look back on i

To the Westenhanger team, Where can I start… I had the most wonderful wedding day thanks to your team from the moment I had the first viewing to the day itself it has been an amazing experience. Your whole team has been so friendly, professional, approachable and made the day perfect! I felt like a princess on the day, getting ready in the beautiful suite with the most delicious breakfast, it was so relaxed, fun and calm!! Georgia you were amazing keeping all the stress from me and making sure the day run so smoothly even when the registrar lady was telling us off for having the ceremony outside, you still made sure I had the day I wanted! The venue looked absolutely stunning, the grounds were beautifully kept and all the guests complimented how gorgeous it was. The food was lovely, all the guests have since complimented us on how nice the food was,

I found the venue online and their fantastic website allows you to see estimated cost based on the date and number of people. Very practical! I was surprised that it was within our budget. So i booked to view it and we were inlove with the place! Tanya was so lovely showing us the place. Right there I knew we found the venue. Full of character & history yet very well maintained. From the sonas website that made planning so much easier to our event coordinator, Kelly! Everyone was so professional and helpful. Onto the wedding day, all the guests were complementing the food and staff service , it was like 5 stat hotel service. Our guests were all praises with the venue. I couldn’t find a fault!

The Ladies are Amazing , My Venue went into administration and had 2 weeks until we were supposed to married. I phoned up and spoke to the amazing Vicki, it then all fell into place. The amazing Kelley was the super hero of the day. I Don't know how Kelleys day went but mine was amazing from start to finish. Let's talk about the Venue ! The Castle Westenhanger Beautiful , stunning. I was a princess the whole day. The character of the old building , the turret, the getting ready room were amazing. The old ship in the grounds and the ruins , all my guest (and me ) commented on how stunning and beautiful this place is. The marquee reception was spacious and we had a fantastic evening. We upgraded our Dj Package (decore and more lights) and it was really worth

Westenhanger Castle was our chosen venue from the second we viewed it. The venue is outstanding and the staff are unquestionably the best in the business. Nothing is too much trouble. I’m a bit of a control freak (haha!!) and I was able to whole heartedly step back, relax and watch them do their thing. Georgi

Nice venue, but room for improvement. When charging premium prices you expect a premium experience, this venue is very special to us and we booked it for that reason, it’s a stunning private venue that I highly recommend. There certainly is room for improvement from management and wedding organisation, and attentio

The venue was so supportive and helpful with any of our choices The team were lovely both leading up to the day and on the day The venue itself is also dreamy. It was stunning enough that everyone said how beautiful it was, but it wasn't the sc

We first looked at this venue 2 years ago. We had a small list of places to view and this was first on our list. When we drove up to the venue we couldn't believe how beautiful it was. The lady who showed us around was so lovely and told us the history of the castle. The grounds were absolutely stunning and had a magical feeling. We spoke to one another and neither of us wanted to look anywhere else. We had fallen in love with it. The team were fantastic and any email I sent was quickly answered. No request was too much for them. They even allowed us to have a unicorn attend on the day. Fast forward 2 years and we finally said I do. We couldn't have asked for a better day. We even had one of our guests say she had never been to a wedding before and no other wedding she would be invited to, could ever top the one at the castle. If you are looking for the most magical place

I couldn't be happier with our wedding at Castle Westenhanger! As someone who loves history and all that Kent has to offer, this venue delivered a completely perfect and magical wedding day. Exceptional Staff & Seamless Service: The staff were absolutely exceptional - they knew exactly what they were doing and handled everything so smoothly that our guests didn't even register being moved from place to place. The day just flowed with complete perfection around us, and any hiccups that occurred were resolved without us even being aware of them. The team was incredibly flexible, saying "yes" to every request we made throughout the day, from moving guests between tables to adjusting how the DJ took requests. Outstanding Wedding Planner: Our wedding planner Jackie was spectacular! I really cannot stress this enough, what an asset to the venue Jackie is! We felt so looked after and cared for. When we had to postpone our wedding by a year, the venue was incredibly understanding and helpful throughout the process. Stunning Ceremony & Grounds: Our outdoor ceremony was absolutely stunning, beautifully protected from the wind within the castle walls. The photo opportunities within the grounds are so special, and the Dove Cote adds such a unique element to the venue. The hidden dance floor reveal was a spectacular moment that our guests are still talking about! Exceptional Food & Service: The food throughout the day was outstanding - every single guest has commented on how beautiful and delicious everything was. We chose the hot British classics for the evening, served directly to our guests on trays so they didn't have to queue anywhere. The service was impeccable. Practical Considerations: There was plenty of parking for our 120 guests, the staff were incredibly helpful with everything. We used the venue's DJ and would suggest being quite prescriptive with song choices if you have specific preferences, though they followed our general direction perfectly. Perfect Flexibility & Atmosphere: The staff were practically invisible unless you needed them, and then they appeared immediately. The venue's flexibility and the team's professionalism made our day absolutely perfect. Castle Westenhanger is a stunn

We had an incredible day and are still getting so many compliments from our guests and suppliers on how beautiful the different parts of the castle and its grounds are. It was an unusual wedding (queer Jewish/Christian interfaith), but Jackie, Vicky and co helped to make sure that we had all the things that were important to us, from the vegan food and alcohol-free drinks to the gender neutral toilets to getting the dancing going before the meal had even started. The ceremony room was perfect (and a special thank you to the person who went up on a ladder to put a covering over the boar head that's mounted on the wall!), and we had some amazing photos and videos back from our photographers/videographer highlighting the beauty across the entire venue. We also really appreciate that the company running the venue sent many

This place is a gem and an absolutely stunning setting for special occasions. We had our daughter’s wedding there in June. The staff were attentive from the moment we first visited to look around, to the time we left having packed up everything the morning after the wedding. The food was delicious and generous portions the drinks were flowing. The castle is authentic and steeped in history which gives it a magical atmosphere.