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Cain Manor, wedding venue in Hampshire, UK
Wedding Venue
Wedding Venue
4.9(206)

Cain Manor

Churt Rd, Headley Down, Hampshire, GU35 8SR, Hampshire, UK

Guest capacity
Up to 123 guests
Per person from
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About Cain Manor

WINNER OF wedding industry WEDDING AWARDS 2024 & 2025. Cain Manor is an exclusive-usewedding venuein the rolling Surrey Hills, on the Surrey-Hampshire border. Renowned for its oak-beamed rooms, beautiful gardens, and exceptional service, Cain Manor is a stage for extraordinary celebrations where everyone feels at home. Whether you're planning an intimate celebration or a grand event, Cain offers a blend of rustic charm and contemporary elegance, making it one of the UK's most desirable wedding venues. The Setting At Cain Manor, the entire house and grounds are exclusively yours for the day and night of your wedding. With licensed ceremony spaces both inside and out, you choose the setting that feels right foryou.Marry in the oak-beamed Music Room, with views across the Hampshire countryside, or ifyou'vealways imaginedan outdoor ceremony, exchange rings beneath the garden pergola on the Meadow Lawn. Capacity & Accommodation Cain Manor welcomes up to 123 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening celebration. After the last dance, retire to the Cain Suite while your nearest and dearest retreat to one of 11 bedrooms. The following morning, gather for a relaxed breakfast together,the perfect chance to relive the highlights before everyone heads home. Harper Kitchens Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Cain Manor. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef LionelJouanet, who previously worked atThe Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality.We workwith trusted suppliers who share our focus on quality and provenance–local family butchers, artisan smokehouses, seasonal produce–to create generous, flavourful dishes that people remember longafter the day. Your wedding includes the Harper Tasting Experience: a chef's selection of starters,mainsand desserts, alongside a range of drinks, so you can make the perfect choices for your day. Your Day, Your Way We believe your wedding should feel wonderfully personal–so we give you the tools and support to make ittruly yours. You'llhave your own online wedding planner, where you can manage details, track decisions, and keep everything in one place.You'llalso have dedicated support from our in-house planning team, with meetings included throughout your journey from booking to the big day. And when it comes to thefinishing touches, ourcarefully curated collection ofHarper Partners–photographers, florists, entertainment and more–knowCain Manorinside out and can help bring your Pinterest board to life. The Harper Weddings Collection Cain Manor is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also runsBotleysMansion in Surrey and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border. After over 25 years of hosting weddings, we know exactly how to createincrediblewedding celebrations thatreflect who you are as a couple, andthat’swhatwe’dlove to help you create. Visit Cain Manor Download our brochure and pricing from our website, or – better still – come and see Cain Manor for yourself in person. Book a visit on our website or get in touch.

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Styles & facilities

Historic
In the country
Barn
Unique weddings
Outdoor license
Civil ceremony licence
Wedding coordinator
Accessible facilities
DJ facilities
Swimming pool
Live band facilities
Overnight accommodation for wedding couple
Master of ceremonies/toastmaster
Changing room for wedding guests
Exclusive use
Evening reception facilities
Alcohol licence
In-house catering
Car parking
Seated meal facilities
Dance floor
Buffet meal facilities
Overnight accommodation for guests
Pet-friendly
Confetti permitted
Entertainment licence

Reviews

4.9(206)4.9/5 from 206 couple reviews

5/5 review

RachelMay 2026

5.0

The team at Cain Manor totally exceeded our expectations on our Wedding Day. From the prompt communication and support throughout the planning process, to the seamless organisation and outstanding service on our big day. We felt so well looked after by Elliyah, she completely took control of everything in such a calm and professional manner - we really didn't need to worry about a thing. We were blessed with a beautiful sunny day meaning we could make the most of the stunning grounds. The atmosphere, food and setting couldn't have been more perfect. Cain Manor is an incredibly special venue full of love and character, we made the best decision! A special mention goes to Jill who was absolutely BRILLIANT all day - all of our guests loved how much she interacted with everyone, made everyone laugh an

5/5 review

FreyaMay 2026

5.0

From the moment we stepped into Cain Manor to visit the venue we knew it was the one. Everything is a 5 star experience - from the planning stages all the way through to your wedding day and beyond! All our guests commented on what an amazing venue it was, and how attentive

5/5 review

AliceDecember 2025

5.0

We cannot recommend Cain Manor highly enough - we had the most perfect wedding day and the team are beyond incredible. We fell in love with the venue when we first visited, and although we viewed several more venues afterwards, I think we knew we had already made up our minds. The team made us feel so special and welcome from the first show around to the day itself, and responded so quickly and helpfully to our many emails and questions. We loved the Sonas online planning management system used the by the venue - underestimated how helpful it would be to keep us on track! A huge thank you Jane, Elliyah and Antonio - on the day itself, they were just wonderful. We could relax and enjoy knowing that they had everything in hand, the day ran completely smoothly and we were so well look

4.8/5 review

DaniSeptember 2025

4.8

We got married on the 5th September 2025. Having planned an outdoor wedding it was pouring with rain in the lead up to the day. Luckily we had a beautiful sunny day and the Cain Manor team did everything they could to make the wedding of our dreams happen (even carrying my dress train and veil to the top of the isle to avoid any damp grass). The Cain team could not do enough for us, making us feel like celebrities for the day. We want to make a specific shout out to Michayla, our organiser for the day and Tom our MC for making the day run so smoothly and keeping us calm when the inevitable excited nerves kicked in. The team are well oiled and know how to run wedding. From the moment we viewed Cain Manor we fell in love with it. The venue is not only beautiful but has that home from home feeling. Just like its staff Cain Manor is warm and inviting. We had so many guests complimenting on the venues beautiful setting. Whilst Cain doesn’t offer the full wedding planner service, their portal massively helpe

4.8/5 review

AliceJuly 2025

4.8

From the moment we saw Cain Manor, we knew it was the one — we didn’t even look at any other venues! The setting is absolutely stunning, and the team were amazing from start to finish. Throughout the planning process, we had regular meetings and were given so much support and advice, which made everything feel stress-free. They have an amazing website app where you put all of your food choices, seating plans etc which is so helpful. We used some of Cain Manor’s recommended suppliers, who were all brilliant and really understood the venue. On the day, we were so well looked after by Sarah and Elliyah — everything was set up beautifully without us having to worry about a thing. They made sure everything ran smoothly, kept everything on time, and were constantly checking in to make sure we were happy. The reception staff were fantastic too — always nearby with a drink or canapés, and so attentive to us and our guests. The food was absolutely sensational and the team were accommodating with our preferences. The day flowed seamlessly and ended with a brilliant night of dancing. Hon

5/5 review

AmieMay 2025

5.0

Thank you Cain Manor for making our wedding day so perfect! From our first viewing to our wedding day, we were made to feel so special. Throughout our 2-year engagement, the team were in regular contact with us and we received quick responses to all our (many!) questions. The online planner was a bonus and we found it super helpful! Our wedding day was absolutely amazing. The house and grounds were stunning in the May sunshine. All our guests commented on how beautiful the venue was, how yummy the food was, and how friendly & attentive the staff were! We couldn’t have asked for a m

5/5 review

LaurenMay 2025

5.0

Absolutely amazing venue for our April wedding. Throughout the whole planning process, the staff were nothing short of amazing. Nothing was too much trouble and they were so so helpful. The use of the online planner made the organisation so much easier. Not only is the venue absolutely stunning, but the day itself was absolutely perfect with amazing food, fabulous drinks and extremely professional staff. I could not have asked for a more perfect wedding day! You definitely get what you pay for, and all our guests commented on how amazing our day was! Sarah especially was such a

4.8/5 review

BeatriceApril 2025

4.8

We had the most incredible wedding day at Cain Manor. Would highly recommend, from our first viewing to breakfast the morning after our wedding day - everyt

5/5 review

Max G.November 2024

5.0

We cannot thank the team at Cain Manor enough. Their expertise and professionalism made our wedding the most perfect day. The team make you feel special from the first moment you meet them, and they are there at your side every step of the way. The online planning portal is really easy to use, and the team and venue are incredibly flexible, nothing is too much trouble for the team at Cain! All guests all commented on how attentive the staff were during the day, as well as the quality (and quantity) of the food - we certainly didn't go hungry! The venue is perfect all year round with acres of outdoor space for when its dry, and plenty of indoor space for people to chill if they don't wan

5/5 review

VictoriaOctober 2024

5.0

We got married at Cain Manor 8 years ago. We’d looked at a few venues but as we drove up the beautiful wooded driveway, I completely fell in love. I’ve always described it as the place I’d love to live! The run up to the day was AMAZING. The staff and wedding planner you get allocated were brilliant, the food on the day was insane (so many friends complimented us!), and the wedding suite and bedrooms are beautiful.

5/5 review

HannahOctober 2024

5.0

We chose Cain manor as our wedding venue and we are absolutely over the moon that we did everything was just perfect. This venue is absolutely stunning, the team at harper were amazing throughout our planning journey and the staff working on the day were fantastic, the food was outstanding our gu

5/5 review

AliceOctober 2024

5.0

The day went so smoothly and so quickly! Every single staff member was so helpful, friendly, and really lovely. If you want to ge

5/5 review

AmberSeptember 2024

5.0

From start to finish the team were absolutely incredible. From arrival they were so hands on with anything we needed help with. All throughout the day there were checking in with both of us to make sure we were happy and seeing if there was anything we needed. All of the set ups for the room were perfect and just as i wanted them. The food was incredible and every single one of our guests said how much they enjoyed it. We had a couple of fussy guests and they even made an alternative main for them which was really appreciated. The whole day went so smoothly

5/5 review

JackAugust 2024

5.0

Absolutely amazing day, from start to finish. Staff were amazing also! Was a beautiful sunny day, very very hot just wish the aircon was better as we was all boiling but the most perfect day! Highly recommend this venue, it’s beautiful.

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